further I go into my thoughts on life, love, relationships, the more I appreciate what I saw and the more I love my newfound freedom.
be a woman today is not simple. Actually it never has been. We are different from men and yet we want to match. But why try to match them when we are different? Simply because we have always been relegated to an object. We have always been regarded as vases, dolls that were used only for breeding.
Then came acts of rebellion. Women have repeatedly expressed to be heard, to say loud and clear that we too are human beings with emotions, thoughts and strength.
But after the seventies, that it happened? Nothing more ... Feminist movements have persisted, but they really continue to fight for a real ideology or at least a realistic ideology?
sake of parity, women fought requesting an egalitarian system, but here, the man was mirrored things, nourishing his desire to be recognized for what it is, while leaving a place disguised as a housewife working-woman.
result, the woman tried to supplant the man. And today it is surprising that within a couple of man does nothing. Leaving him no chance to take a full place, simple revenge for the oppression suffered in society, the woman wants to reign supreme in his household. The man finds his account, since he already reigns outside, at least with him there is not shit, Ms. manages everything. Except that wanting everything to manage, the woman puts a pressure monster and does not know say stop it even works. It is then assigned tasks more cumbersome and difficult in addition to his home. That's where the drama arises. She ended by reproaching her spouse to do nothing to help him, but he did just asked at some point help? If yes sir and did nothing, maybe she has not sufficiently expressed its need. Or is that things are introduced within the couple are too inked and that nothing will. It is therefore advisable not to give bad habit from the start of a couple. Do not say "no leaves I'm going to do" because under the influence of the love we want to help the loved him and avoided the dirty work. Unless the couple is sharing all of the unpleasant as well.
So when we start with someone you must let him place his people and his responsibility as being full. This is not the woman, to the accounts of the gentleman, his administrative letters, linen etc.. Everyone should continue to manage what is clean and all that is specific to the couple should be done together. The sorting the laundry, the other puts in the machine. One notes the expenditure other consistency checks with the statement of bank, the shopping list is done together, like shopping, if the timing to prevent it, one does the shopping, the other organizers, etc..
But to achieve this harmony, it is still necessary that people know what love is and why at some point two people choose to get together. Because right today, it seems that what makes two people to get together, it is the image that reminds us of our dear backward society.
To live happily live together ... So everything is a pretext for the couple. But where is the love in all this? And why love he would push us to live together? And if love was more than a desire to share the daily life of another? Besides, to maintain that love, maybe do not live there all the time with each other.
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