How is it that today, while we are in a new modern era, people are unable to conceive of life otherwise?
We find that couples do the same again. In 2001 the divorce rate in France reached 45%. And those are just a divorce ...
3 / 4 of divorces are sought by women.
And the rate of fault divorce has not changed for over 25 years.
We often talk about consumer society. I hear this all the time around me "We are in a consumer society, today, something goes wrong, you throw."
I am amazed when I hear it. Love, feelings, therefore, would be that simple? It takes you throw? Is it so easy to love and love-of?
And if things were not so simple?
Honestly, we do not let us hide behind false excuses that we déculpabilisent? It's so easy to blame today's society and its mode of operation. Though in truth I really think the company is the main cause of our malaise. Not because we live in a consumer society, but more because the human being is a big lazy who do not want to think a little bit to its existence and that scared of doing something that could go to against the current world. We give
we really matter?
Have we thought at one point today, men and women worked, as the lives of two could not fit into the same model as our parents, let alone that of our grandparents?
The mores have changed, life is not the same it was 20 or 30 years. The economy and consumption pattern has changed, but our designs they are archaic.
Today we constantly make ourselves understood by various means (education, advertising, film, novel), that to be happy, you must be married, living in a house, have two cars, two jobs (well paid preferably), two kids, a dog and two cats. From every winter ski and summer at the beach. Family Christmas, birthday parties, wake up with friends ... And every year that passes we start the same old story.
Nor should we forget that we seek the woman to clean, meals, manage the economy and the administration of the couple, caring for children.
Yes but some men are involved in the daily tasks you ask me. And I would say that yes indeed, and fortunately, but is it the majority? It is noted that although this tends to move 94% of men confirm that it is women who do most household chores. (Cf. http://www.ipsos.fr/CanalIpsos/articles/2436.asp). In the study
Ipsos they often speak of the fact that women do not begrudge. You tell me when they agree to do so, and some even say they love it. But I would say that you should not be exaggerated and that if a woman does that is because since he was tiny instilled the concept of women housewife! And yes nothing has changed! The proof shelves of toy stores. It's appalling! Rays of girls are filled kit perfect housewife! Vacuum cleaners, brooms, microwave, ironing boards ... Not to mention the babies. On the other hand side we find boy educational games, logic, construction, etc.. In
are we educate our daughters to do chores and do not reflect our boys and have to reflect a spirit of logic and not know to clean! Yet
girls go to school as boys, they succeed even better than them (cf. http://www.marianne2.fr/Pourquoi-les-filles-sont-elles-toujours-premieres- de-la-class-and-never-chiefs-of-entreprise_a196867.html). It encourages women to become free but yet their freedom is limited by their predefined role as mother and homemaker. Because even if women work and have gained financial independence they are nevertheless of housewives who are struggling to make their shining clean indoor while Mr. plays on his computer or on his Playstation.
The woman has evolved in recent decades and yet nobody wanted to redesign the couple. Is that the old couple, the one where the woman spent her day at home while her husband was killed at the plant may still apply today?
And after I was told that it is the consumer society that makes a couple splits in two ...
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