Sometimes we do not know what to say.
Especially when we meet someone for the first time, you feel silly. We would like to talk but it does not come. Why? Lack of confidence? Lack of interest in the game or simply fear of being judged on the other?
Maybe a little of everything too ... Although
. I would say that most of the time, if it's a romantic encounter and the person we love, we fear the trial. We are in this phase of seduction and therefore we are afraid of being frowned upon by the other.
Again and again the ruling ...
Why can not we be ourselves and we laugh at the judgments of others? I know damn nothing. At least for the others ... because for me I know why I was so. Ah yes I hear you say? And I would say yes. But why was I so? Simply lack of confidence in myself and recovery. Let me explain.
Take a child, whatever. Raise it into believing it is an object embarrassing, it is useless, it's just a thing we can possess and iron from hand to hand. Do not forget to make him understand well that it is nothing and get nowhere. Take care to compare it to others by pressing on the fact that it is different from others that his life is not normal, it will not succeed as a normal child and that compared to others it is below . Oh and if a girl do not forget to make him every way that men are bastards and idiots who only seek to appease women.
Well, you get a shy teenager who is trying every means to expand and become someone. Bad luck it encounters a type manipulator and the possible con to infinity. It fooled a few years and wakes up one day and say "it's more I continue to be possible as well and I kill myself or I take my life back. "And here is the upheaval.
It sends piss the guy breaks off and says" the pressure cooker should I go, there is going see you're a human being full and that you are worth more than all these morons ".
result blooming woman, in full physical and intellectual renaissance.
Consequence: making self-confidence.
Yes it must have confidence, trust our moral standards. We are the only ones capable of knowing what is good for us. We are the only ones who know who we are and what we want. We are the only ones who know that we are in agreement with our moral standards (although it should be and if we're not, they must review and agree with yourself).
Then you have to say that if people do not like us for what we are, they are not worth the trouble that their interest relates. Us is that they do not match.
is up to us to decide who should be part of our surroundings and that we can love our fair value. And not vice versa. This makes no sense to try to coax people adapting to their endpoints, because after a while we move away from our ego (or thinking being, or inner self). And there is the fall, we become bitter, you're scared of the world, you feel excluded, inadequate. And the more we feel this feeling of inadequacy, the more we become because we do not want people to come to us and find out. On the other hand we want how we let ourselves discover when we lost? If we do not already know who we really are, how can we let the other know us?
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